I am a firm believer in getting out of your small-town hometown, but why? Why would you leave somewhere that has everything you know? Why leave your family and friends behind? Why leave your favorite places? Because in order to appreciate these things and realize how important they are to you, you may have to be away from them. You also don’t have to leave forever; you can always go back at any time.
Living in different places allows you to see change and growth within yourself; you reflect more. You’ll nourish yourself on your own, you’ll find yourself, you'll meet new people, explore new places, and see the world outside of where you’ve been all your life. You may also have a dream that allows you to be in a different place; don’t be afraid to go for it. Moving away will create a different view and perspective on life, which will either help you realize how much you really love (or dislike) your hometown.
Having experienced this myself, I am fortunate that I have had the opportunity to move out of my hometown. I discovered the person that I am and want to be, I found new hobbies and formed better habits, I learned how much my family actually means to me, and I realized who my truest and dearest friends are. It can’t go without saying that there are many times over and over again that I wish I were back home, but when I am, it makes it a little sweeter and makes me appreciate the little moments. Although, I wouldn’t change where I am now because I get to focus on myself a lot more than I did and build things that I may not have done back home. If you are feeling this way and just want more, visit places and see what they are like and how you feel when you are there. Granted, moving away may not solve your problems, but it can be a start. Self-care begins within, and if you think it is time for a change, then it very well may be.
That everyday feeling of being stuck is a sign that you may need to get away. I don’t mean go on a quick weekend trip because, let’s face it, that especially doesn’t make your problems go away long-term. You want to be happy and feel at peace with where you are living because that can have a big effect on your mental health and state of being. Letting go of those old habits and the same routine can help you form new ones.
If you are just wanting to get out and explore new places and meet new people, I am here to say that it is absolutely okay to do so! It may be fun for you and worth it in the end. Figure out what is holding you back, get rid of the excuses, and make it work, do it for you! You deserve to see different places and see just how wonderful they are. Your family will miss you but will always support you, especially if it means you can find your truest self and be happier in a new environment.
Remember that you are not selfish for wanting more out of YOUR life. New and healthy growth is good and always encouraged! <3